“To dream of the person you would like to be is to waste the person you are.”
Need I say more? Before you push yourself into being someone, trying to be the coolest dude/chick in the world, think again: Do you really need to be that? If you ain’t cool enough, why do you have friends?
You never know, the “self” that you think that sucks might be the coolest person in the world for some.